Assalamualaikum and hello.
It has been a while since my last heart to heart series. Aihhh, what's new right? I've been busy with my personal life and this pregnancy is definitely taking away my energy. I have not been attending many events lately because I am simply tired and lazy all the time. And yes, I am busy packing up as I will be moving in to a new place next week, FINALLY! Urgh! The house is not complete yet, but the kitchen is almost done, the bedroom is done, my makeup room is nowhere nearly done (lol) and my baking room is empty too (lol) but I just want to move in by next week. The most important part is the kitchen is almost done and the bedroom is done so I'm happy about that. We are moving in slowly as I need my husband to help me out of course. I can't bend (so sad) due to my growing tummy and there's a lot of things I can't do because I need to limit my movement to ensure my baby is doing good in the tummy. My husband has been a champion, an all-rounder for helping me around the house. Love you Bubu, you are the best! :D
Anyway, going back to the topic that I want to discuss today. Is sharing on social media is a good thing? What is your take on that? I personally love seeing my friends uploading happy news, photos or whatever in their feeds, I am happy for them. But I've seen people sharing quotes such as :
"Do not share about your love life because there are someone out there does not have what you have"
"Do not share what you eat because there are people who are starving out there"
"Do not share that you are pregnant because there are people who are struggling to have children"
"Do not share about your loving parents and family because there are people who doesn't even have a family"
To be honest, I think these quotes are rubbish. Seriously, if you look at it from a POSITIVE thinking, you will never be threatened or jealous about whatever people have. YOU as a friend should be happy for your friends and not thinking NEGATIVE. I just don't get it why people get so uptight about this 'sharing', well it is social media, am I right? If you can't deal with it, UNFOLLOW, MUTE or HIDE their news feed, as easy as that. But of course, we have to know the limits when sharing. DO NOT overly exposed your life and DO NOT upload 10 photos in a straight hours, that can get pretty annoying as well. You just have to know to balance it out.
I have a lot of people asking me to do blog posts on my pregnancy. I directly told them that I don't think I want to do it because I don't want rub people on the wrong way. It's crazy that I have to think about other people, meaning 'pleasing people' and caring so much about what people think. But I personally don't want to share so much because I want to keep it private. Maybe there will be 2 - 3 blog posts about my pregnancy in the future, when my due date is almost approaching. I don't know, lets see how it goes okay? :D
I just hope the society can be more open-minded, positive thinking and generally just be happy with whatever they see on the social medias. There is no point bashing other people's lives and down-grading them. Diorang kacau hidup kau ke? And one more thing, you could be sharing things that might offend other people as well, have you ever thought about that? Walk the talk, that's all I need to say.
Okay that's all for today. *hahahaha* NO NO NO I'm not upset with anybody, I just feel that I need to point it out because this 'terasa & sentap' feeling when people share about their lives is childish. :D Bye guys, see you in my next post! :)
Thanks for reading love! ^_^